Welcome to my new feature on Blast the Radio called “Be a Single and Dating Rockstar with Suzie” where I share my expertise with listeners to help them navigate the dating world and find their prince or princess among the frogs!
Segment 28: Switching Gears
Listen Here (6:52mins):
Be a Single & Dating Rockstar:
Switching Gears
Main Points: Switching Gears (Changing your dating narrative)
- If you are unhappy where you are at, then you need to switch your gears and shift your perspective. You need to change your narrative.
- We’ve heard before: change your story, change your life
- First, you need to let go of past hurts, hang-ups and attachments. Release your baggage because it is holding you down. This will allow you to more easily let go of any negative self talk that limits you (I’m unattractive, I’m too old, I’m unlovable, I’m not interesting enough, I’m too fat/skinny/short/tall).
- Next, take stock of your dating habits. Do you gravitate towards the same types repeatedly? Do you like the excitement a whirlwind romance gives you? Learn from this and do better.
- Then, live a solutions based life where every challenge or bad experience is a learning opportunity that elevates you higher. Instead of being a victim be powerful, use it as leverage. Do not allow other people define you.
- Your dating destiny is in your hands and it all begins with your dating narrative. What you truly believe will happen; you will attract what you put out there.
- Being purposeful and positive in your life, including your dating life, will help you achieve your desired goals. One-step at a time.
POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I am powerful, grateful and positive

Be a Single & Dating Rockstar with Suzie
Kissing a lot frogs with no prince or princess in sight? Dating Expert Suzie from SingleDatingDiva.com is here to help you find love. She has been through the trenches of the good, bad and ugly of dating and is now married with two children. She wants to help YOU achieve the dating outcomes you desire by navigating single and dating life effectively.
What listeners can expect: Dating CAN be fun and Suzie can show you how! She brings with her many years experience not only dating but also helping singles like you find the love they crave. She will let you in on the lessons she has learned along the way from her extensive dating, education, career and life experience. She teaches others how to navigate the dating world successfully to find happily ever after as she did. The rest is up to you! Her key message is that love is out there, they really are not all frogs, you just have to date smart and with purpose.
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