Recently, I’ve been thinking about if our actions in a relationship, once we get comfortable, contribute to its downfall. I know that getting to a level where you let down your inhibitions in a relationship is important, but, do some people take it too far. Do they let loose a little TOO much? I think that they do, yes. Whatever happened to keeping the spark alive and maintaining a little mystery? I think letting it all hang out and letting yourself go is only hurting you in the end. This doesn’t only include your daily routines, but, also what you wear and how you look. Granny panties beware! Lingerie IS important in a relationship and here’s why.
Lingerie Every Day
Lingerie typically is meant to be appealing, sexy, even erotic. It helps set the mood for very special evening, but, what if this is a typical day, do you still wear lingerie? I say yes! If you’re single, dating, in a relationship or even married for 20 years this applies. I think you should never leave the house unless you have something sexy underneath your clothes. That should be a rule. Why save them for a special occasion? I’ll give you an example, I have a drawer full of lingerie that I rarely got a chance to wear during my marriage because of all the problems we had. After my marriage, I decided that I was going to wear them, even if no one was going to see them. You know what happened? It made me more comfortable in my own skin and more confident and flirty. This translated into the image and personality I projected to the outside world. Now, I never wear anything unappealing underneath my clothes. It’s a rule I have. Even if no one is going to see it, it’s still there, for me.
Lingerie is a Staple in a Healthy Relationship
We contribute to the success of our relationships. It’s a two-way street, there’s no doubt about that. Focusing on the relationship is an important factor in longevity. Lingerie definitely plays an important part. As I mentioned earlier, wearing something sexy underneath your clothes makes you feel sexy and confident. Your partner will definitely appreciate it and you can use it to entice them and be flirty. When you sleep, wear nice, sexy things. Don’t wear baggy flannel pyjamas or cover up completely. Although wearing his t-shirt can be sexy sometimes, don’t make a habit of it. Wear camisoles, silk or satin negligees or nighties, things with lace or a sexy pattern … all these things speak volumes to your partner. It tells them that you are attractive and you find them attractive and that they are important to you.
You might think this is backwards or that your partner should want and love you regardless of what you have underneath your clothes. You’re right, they should love and want you at your best and worst, but give them a reason to WANT you, make them drool and keep the spark alive. Give them something to look forward to. Keep those extra special pieces for special occasions, but wearing a matching bra and panty set each day and incorporating lace and other sexy materials and styles into your daily routine is a must. Granny panties not allowed! Believe me, it will do wonders for your confidence and your relationship.
Your Sister in Dating Bliss,
Single Dating Diva
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