Ever wonder where you stand with someone? Is defining a relationship necessary? Well, I think at some point you do need to know. Often times we end up in relationship limbo because we don’t want rock the boat or we end up in a “relationship lite” situation where we kinda sorta are in a relationship,…
Instant chemistry. The “wow factor“. What is it? Does it matter? Does love at first sight really exist? Many have asked me if it really does matter and how much. Is there an impact of instant chemistry on relationship success? Well, I have given it some thought and asked a few people. What’s my answer? My…
These days, it seems everything is about the “here and now”. Impulsive behavior has taken over. I know I’m a very impulsive person and that has led me to make some very poor choices in my life, particularly when it comes to dating and sex. People who are impulsive typically don’t like waiting so they choose…
Most people on the dating scene look for some level of attractiveness in the people they go out with. It’s human nature and part of the mating game. How many times, when being set up on a blind date, have you asked, “Is he cute?” or “Is she hot?” Don’t you usually skip over those…
We’ve ALL been there … wondering if they like you or not. Sitting anxiously awaiting some sort of contact from them. Something, Anything. Anything at all! Then, days go by and nothing. Maybe they do contact you after causing you days or weeks of agony and then give you some attention … then … back…
OK, show of hands, who is sick and tired of seeing everyone else living their “happily ever after” while you go on shitty date after shitty date? I get it, it’s extremely frustrating. As happy and fulfilled as your single life may be, you still want your own “happily ever after” whatever that looks like…
Casual sex is quite the hot topic these days. It seems that everyone is doing it and it’s “all good”. The impression out there is that it’s an ideal option for singles while they’re waiting for the one, or, if they don’t want to be in relationships. I mean what’s not to like? Right? You…
One of the worst feelings in the world is the feeling of betrayal. When it’s a loved one that betrays you it’s even that much worse. Relationships are built on love, respect and trust, or at least they should be. Unfortunately, this isn’t the case for everyone. Cheating happens. It happens even to the best…
I read somewhere the term “virgin-whore dichotomy” and it stuck with me. What exactly does that mean? Well, it means that women are placed into two categories, either the “good girl” or the “bad girl”. There is no in between. Most men want to date and have sex with the “bad girl”, they desire her,…
Lately I’ve been getting a lot of questions and emails about readers who are having difficulty deciphering whether or not someone is actually flirting with them because they like them or if they are just flirting for attention. Some people like playing games and others are natural flirts. That can definitely be confusing for the…
Someone said to me recently that people are only as faithful as their options. It made think, could that be true? At what point does cheating become “out of your hands”? Don’t we have free will? Don’t we have choices? Could temptation be that, well, tempting, that it’s beyond your control? I’ve always maintained that…
Here’s the dilemma many people have. You are meeting several people and going on a lot of first dates. That’s why coffee for a first date is my “go to”. They don’t always go well and it’s back to the drawing board. Other times you’ve met someone you really like and going out means spending…
