Weeding Through Dating Profiles [Be a Single and Dating Rockstar]

Segment 40:
Weeding Through Dating Profiles

Listen Here (11:31 mins):
Be a Single & Dating Rockstar:
Weeding Through Dating Profiles

Main Points: Weeding Through Dating Profiles (Ask Your Dating Expert Suzie)

  • Anyone who dates online knows well that there are a lot of questionable types on there, some great catches, but most are somewhere in the middle. Ask yourself where you fit. Honestly.
  • The online dating weeds are usually the loudest and most charming, they tell you what you want to hear, how you want to hear it and they definitely “choke out” quality profiles just like your garden weeds. 
  • These weeds usually end up being the time wasters, without a doubt.
  • You can be a good weeder, you just need to be better equipped. Here’s how:
    – have a good dating profile that isn’t negative (doesn’t display baggage), demonstrate that you’re serious without saying it
    – don’t take the app/site’s suggested profiles seriously because it’s usually the ones who will respond fastest and get you hooked (it’s a trick!)
    – be specific when you search, especially for the qualities/values that are important to you
    – look at their picture to see if it’s recent and decent
    – read their tag line / profile if it’s positive and interesting (“will fill this out later” or “here we go again” is not acceptable)
    – first contact messages should be fulsome and interesting (not just “hey” or “you’re hot”) as well as conversational
    –  listen to your gut and pay attention to any red flags
  • Ultimately, you should be taking it offline as soon as possible and meeting in person, if it feels right and it feels good, go for it and see what happens, otherwise don’t waste your time
  • Use these weeding skills to get what you want, remember quality and not quantity is important!

POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I will be an effective online dating weeder

You can ask Suzie a confidential dating question here: https://singledatingdiva.com/contact-me/ask-sdd/

Welcome to my new feature on Blast the Radio called “Be a Single and Dating Rockstar with Suzie” where I share my expertise with listeners to help them navigate the dating world and find their prince or princess among the frogs!

Be a Single & Dating Rockstar with Suzie

Kissing a lot frogs with no prince or princess in sight? Dating Expert Suzie from SingleDatingDiva.com is here to help you find love. She has been through the trenches of the good, bad and ugly of dating and is now married with two children. She wants to help YOU achieve the dating outcomes you desire by navigating single and dating life effectively.

What listeners can expect: Dating CAN be fun and Suzie can show you how! She brings with her many years experience not only dating but also helping singles like you find the love they crave. She will let you in on the lessons she has learned along the way from her extensive dating, education, career and life experience. She teaches others how to navigate the dating world successfully to find happily ever after as she did. The rest is up to you! Her key message is that love is out there, they really are not all frogs, you just have to date smart and with purpose.

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